While I was growing up, there was a female politician who was deeply respected and loved in our community. Everyone called her “Mama All” because of the maternal love she showed to everyone, regardless of religion, tribe, or denomination. When election time came, the majority of the people voted for her with high hopes. But to our dismay, she was denied her rightful victory. The leadership position was handed to someone we never expected—a man who had no genuine interest in the well-being of the people. His only advantage was being male.
Mama All was outstanding, inclusive, and courageous. She always stood for the truth. The day she eased a long-standing trauma in our society was the moment she earned deep respect from everyone. Many men had tried to resolve the issue without success, but with just a few powerful, heartfelt words, she brought peace and healing where others had failed.
Mama All’s story is just one example of a wider problem in Nigeria’s democracy. Nigeria returned to democratic rule in 1999, with hopes of fairness, equal representation, and national growth. Yet, over two decades later, women are still largely excluded from the political space. Despite having intelligent, visionary, and determined women, Nigeria continues to deny them their rightful place in leadership. Meanwhile, other African countries have taken bold steps in empowering women. In Rwanda, for example, women occupy over 60% of parliamentary seats—the highest in the world. Ethiopia appointed its first female president, Sahle-Work Zewde, in 2018. Even in countries like Senegal and South Africa, women are visibly present in key government roles. These nations show that progress is possible when gender is not used as a barrier. Nigeria must rise above outdated mindsets and embrace the strength and wisdom that women bring to the table.
After the election, the community’s hope began to fade. The man who was declared the winner proved to be disconnected from the people’s needs. Promises were broken, and development slowed. The same people who once cheered during the campaign now whispered in regret. Many began to realize that their true leader had been rejected not by the people, but by a system that feared female leadership. Mama All returned to private life, but her compassion and legacy never left the hearts of those she served.
Mama All’s story is a reminder that Nigeria—and many other nations—still have a long way to go in embracing true democracy. Leadership should be about vision, capacity, and integrity—not gender. As long as women continue to be pushed aside in politics, the nation will be denying itself the full potential of its people. It is time for Nigeria to rise to the example set by other African nations, and allow women to lead not just in spirit, but in power. The future must belong to every voice—male and female alike.
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